Actress/Comedian "Mo'nique" Talks About Giving Her Husband A Cheating Pass
|Is Mo'nique Serious About This Cheating Pass?|
In the article, the twice-married actress and comedian talks about giving her husband a "pass" sleep with other people.
Mo'Nique says that while couples should "live by" their marital vows, she also added "people cheat because of something they're not getting." The solution? A "pass to cheat."
|Mo'nique And Her Husband|
Because -- as Mo'Nique explains it -- if couples have "open and honest conversations" with their partner, it's OK to go ahead and cheat.
Especially if the person your partner wants to cheat with will do something that you won't do.
Mo’Nique further explained why she feels couples should give each other a ‘pass to cheat’.
“The person that you stood up and you said ‘for better, for worse, sickness and in health, richer or poorer’ you took those vows in front of the universe.
If you don’t live by them, then maybe you shouldn’t have taken them.
And when you say ‘a pass to cheat’—see, when you’re with your best friend and you say to your best friend: ‘I’m having these feelings about this person, sexually, and I want to share it with you.’
When you’re best friends, you can have those open and honest conversations.
Often times, people cheat because of something they’re not getting. But when you have open and honest dialogue, and you say we’re just human beings.
And all these people on the face of the earth, do you think my eyes won’t ever say ‘he’s fine’ or ‘she’s attractive’?”
“Now, if you want to go further with it, let’s be honest enough to have those conversations. What is it about that person that you find that you want to sleep with? Because they may give you something that I’m simply not willing to do.